the dream of returning to the forests and mountains. This is what motivates me. I used to be an avid outdoor enthusiast…canoeing, backpacking, camping etc before I had kids…I have always drawn my joy and energy from nature. We’ve had a hard few years since kids and my health issues that are directly related to stress and hormone imbalances, hypothyriod chronic fatigue, adrenal fatigue, some days it’s hard enough getting out of bed …and therefor haven’t gotten out nearly as much as I had dreamed about with the kids.
The days we do have I’m often too tired to go or the house is a disaster or the kids are crabby or what have you…
My dream is to get back to the place where we are not ruled by stress, that cleaning is managed during the week and that even my body can find healing in the process of removing stress and adding in more outdoor time that I know was and is so vital to my wellbeing. This is what drives me to declutter my space my time my emotions…to make space for the thinges that will help to heal me…emotionally, spiritually and physically. And give the gift of nature to my children…the gift that once delighted me that they would be just as delighted and in awe of God’s wonderful creation.
It seems wrong…to be acquirering more space as we embark on a simpler life. But it makes a lot of sence when we look the the future. We need the office space if I’m going to ever love my home…and ever sleep without stress while I attempt to grow a business that allows me to be mostly home while the kids are young.
We need dedicated play and guest spaces as the whole and storage for camping and canoeing which are big passions but much neglected because of lack of access to the equipment needed.
How does it tie in? A year ago we were looking at moving to a bigger house. To a new place, to find something more. In the past 6 months we have discoured this was a bit of a paradox though…. when we bought this house we loved it. It felt huge coming from an apartment! What had changed? 2 adults plus 2 kids plus stuff with a main floor that is all one room…as overwhelming as the stuff was…stuff can be dealt with…but as much as I love my kid’s and they love us…they are getting to an age where being in a room with mom all the time actually was stressful for me and causing them to lack problem solving skills at all and my son has some sensory quirks and being sent to his room feels like punishment but being in the only common area is often too much for him. Extra space means we have room to exist without being on top of each other every waking moment.
Sometimes minimalism isn’t about downsizing….but it’s about not up sizing or moving and learning to be content where you are, and only keeping the stuff that enables to do that.
I like tea. I like having people over for tea even more then I like having tea. Pulled out the mugs the other day and noticed they were stained inside…and of course this would never have bothered me before…but since beginning to purge I’ve started to care about taking care of the stuff I want to keep ….
Anyway back to the story, 10 minutes before someone was coming I frantically searched the Internet on the quickest way to clean mugs. Baking soda vinegar and blue dawn seemed like top quick favorites…since those are staples I’m our house anyway…I didn’t bother following instructions and just put some of each in the mugs…and viola..a little bit of elbow grease and they look beautiful!
Tea was had and enjoyed…but of course I couldn’t stop there…now they needed a beautiful home….so the cup cupboards got decluttered…
And then it didn’t make sence to leave the kitchen a mess…so a few hours later… and another 3 boxes ready to go to the thrift store…
I no longer loath this room….in fact right now it’s my favorite room. In the house…. but I do feel a little bit like the mouse with the cookie…. if you give a minimalist a project….
It’s amazing how tackling such a lived in room can change the whole mood of a house…my house now feels welcoming and eager to great us when we start the day.
As I have now spent nearly 3 years (and probably will forever more will be),learning how to become not just the mother I want to be, but the person I long to be. I have made some interesting discoveries along the way. This blog is to give a bit more detail then my Instagram or other forms of media provides. My hope is to inspire, support and mostly let other mothers, everywhere in their journey, know they are not alone.
A bit about me:
I am a mother of 2 beautiful, busy, sometimes challenging kids. A stay at home mom with a passion to see other moms thrive. I deal with a chronic illness and one of my children has (for the most part invisible) special needs, and those two factors are largely what has caused me to seek more joy, more peace, and a more natural – less chemical, less stressful, less overstimulating life.
What you can expect from this space:
Personal realizations as we dive deeper into a more minimalist lifestyle
Cleaning and tidying experiments and tips
Clean eating and how natural remedies and essential oils have benefited our family
Special needs information and struggles as they relate to my journey of motherhood
Attachment parenting and adoptive parenting thoughts and re-posts
Whatever else I happen to think is worth sharing.